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Is it possible to be in a D/s relationship without love?

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  1. Malak says

    Yes, definitely. It is not for everyone and it is much harder but it is very possible. There was a Mistress i served for whom i was just one of Her maids. i was not Her lover, i did not love Her at all. However, i loved the service and that became my driving force.

  2. Celia Sweet aka Lady Celia says

    I don’t want to be in a D/s relationship without love as a component of that relationship, I believe it deepens the bond between the Mistress and the sub/slave.

  3. Kat Ayliffe says

    I would think as a relative newcomer to the scene and in my very first D/s relationship, the bond between my Dom and I deepens by the day, and although first and foremost my submission to Him is what drives and motivates me, He is also my lover and inspiration and teacher and Mentor. The physical aspect is of course very crucial but the emotional connection that existed from day 1 is something I cherish immensely.

    I’m sure you can sustain such a relationship without love but I know for me it would have been emotionally empty without it :-)

  4. Athena says

    I need a deep connection to give my all, other than no connection i feel like a prostitute :-\

  5. Georgia says

    I can not imagine not having love in a D/s relationship. For me the issue is what if your Dom doesn’t love you, but you love him?

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