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If SM is a part of your dynamic explain how pain works for you. Is it a sexual turn on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving?

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  1. Ted Underfoot says

    I would not fit my enjoyment of pain into any of those four buckets (sexual turn on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving). I enjoy pain of torture as a vehicle for putting me into a state of mind in which I am being victimized and dominated. While that may be a sexual turn on it isn’t necessarily one and I do not need any sexual contact during or after being given pain in order to greatly enjoy the experience.

  2. Captains Bitch says

    I do not enjoy the pain, though my Captain would and often does disagree. For me pain is the physical representation of His dominance, and that turns me on. If there was not a component of dominance during these play times, I would not be able endure the pain portion. The same feelings can be brought out in me by Him exerting his dominance in other ways besides inflicting pain on me. Pain happens because he at times enjoys that aspect of our play and I want to please Him. If it was something that I could not take, He would respect the use of my word, and play would stop. Though I understand the healing release and a session of giving buckets. At times it has been a release after a trying week or event. Though I think it comes back to sinking into my Captains dominance that is the true release.

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