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Why do you define yourself as submissive …

Why do you define yourself as submissive? Try to steer away from ‘I like to serve’ and see what other things you have to offer.

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Make three (or more) sexual wishes. Don

Make three (or more) sexual wishes. Don’t hold back!

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Do you ever view service to be an ‘inv …

Do you ever view service to be an ‘invisible convenience’ to your owner?

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Do you find a sense of security in servi …

Do you find a sense of security in serving or being owned?

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Make a list of your sexual partners and …

Make a list of your sexual partners and write a few phrases to describe the relationship. What patterns do you see?

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What, if anything, do you find distressi …

What, if anything, do you find distressing about your sexual thoughts or fantasies? Write about that to clarify it for yourself.

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Do you ever have submissive immersion wh …

Do you ever have submissive immersion where you have times that your role is more pronounced and you do things very structured and organized?

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Do you identify as submissive or slave o …

Do you identify as submissive or slave or something entirely different? What is your definition for that identity?

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How does a bottom know what items are safe to be used for scenes/play?

How does a bottom know what items are safe to be used for scenes/play?

Have you ever looked through a tops bag and thought something was unsafe to be used as a toy?

There are some really strange things used in play that weren’t designed for it.

What are some items you would veto because the item is not safe?

Here are some questions you can ask yourself about items you aren’t sure about:

  • Can it be properly cleaned
  • Will it leaves lasting scars that you are not comfortable having on your body
  • Is it maintained and kept in good shape. No damaged areas that could make it unsafe.

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“It is only with the heart that one ca …

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” -Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince

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